A CHARITY which supports grieving parents whose children have died has officially opened the doors of its new premises.
The Laura Centre has been operating in Derby since 2012 but its counsellors had been running sessions from the Royal Derby Hospital.
The year before, an appeal was launched to raise £150,000 to establish the charity in the city – which included the Laura Centre having its own premises.
And, yesterday, members and trustees of the charity unveiled their new home in Vernon Street – where counselling sessions will now be run two days a week.
Leading city figures were among those at the event, along with representatives of groups and organisations which helped with the fund-raising drive.
Among guests were Annette and Martin Smith, the first parents to receive support from the Laura Centre in Derby.
Their son, Alex, 11, a pupil at Alfreton Park Community Special School, died in February 2009. He suffered from epilepsy from a young age and later developed Stevens–Johnson syndrome – a rare and life-threatening skin condition.
Annette, 47, and Martin, 51, of Minster Way, Swanwick, said they did not go to the Laura Centre until three years after his death.
Annette said: "We struggled on and we tried to cope but it was three years on we felt the need for counselling.
"I think people presume the need for something like that is straight away but that's not always the case.
"We reached that point where we decided not to be afraid to accept the help available."
Annette said Alex's death had been particularly hard because he had appeared at one stage to be getting better.
She said: "It was cruel for us because we'd almost been prepared for Alex's death about a year before it happened. But then he had a major brain operation and we were able to bring him home at one point after months in hospital.
"But his condition deteriorated over Christmas 2008 and he died at the beginning of the February. He had so many seizures and he just didn't wake up from them.
"It was hard going to the Royal Derby Hospital for the counselling because, although Alex had been transferred to the Queen's Medical Centre in Nottingham before his death, he'd had a lot of his care there.
"But our counsellor, Chris Dilley, was so good to us. You feel like there are things you daren't mention to others but he understood how you felt and, somehow, they help to try to take that burden off you because they know what you're going through. So it's wonderful to see the Laura Centre now has a place of its own – it's a lovely place and I really do think people will get a lot of benefit from it."
Counsellor Chris, along with colleague Alison Beck, will only be running bereavement sessions for adults at this stage but the charity is hoping to extend its services for children too.
At the official opening, speeches were made by several guests before a plaque was unveiled by Emma Curzon, of Kedleston Hall – where fund-raising events have been held for the Laura Centre.
Speakers included Elaine Penton, chairman of the Laura Centre Derby trustees, who said: "When we were sat in a rented room in 2012, this day seemed like a very long way off.
"But we have since had support from some wonderful people and groups and this location is just perfect."
Neil White, editor of the Derby Telegraph, which supported the launch of the Laura Centre's £150,000 appeal, said: "As a father of two, the idea of losing either of my children sends shivers down my spine.
"So it is superb to see this new centre and the tenacity of the charity in creating a place which will provide comfort and solace to those who need it."
And Harry Moore, who co-founded the Laura Centre in Leicester with his wife, Gail, before bringing it to Derby, said: "It's been a long journey and it's not been easy.
"A lot of people think what the Laura Centre does is just talking but it's much more than that – it's about putting people's lives back together and helping them to function again."
To find out more about receiving support from the Laura Centre, call Derby 408026.
Funeral directors G Wathall and Son, Derby County Football Club, Derbyshire Cricket Club are just some of the organisations which have been helping to fund-raise for the Laura Centre Derby.
Their efforts have included a 130-mile charity walk from Derby to London, undertaken by staff at G Wathall and Son, and the Laura Centre's first-ever Colour Blast Dash in Derby in May.
Gail Moore, who founded the Laura Centre in Leicester with her husband, Harry, before bringing it to Derby, said: "This day is so poignant because it's taken three years of hard work to get here. Now we need to let people know we are here – both to support them but also to be on their radars so people can continue to support us."
To find out more, call Derby 343016, e-mail jemma@thelauracentrederby.org.uk or visit www.thelauracentrederby.org.uk.
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